"There is still a second ..."
'It's always nervous, screaming, kicking. ... In short, is not peaceful, "
" It combines the all colors, does not know the quiet games .... "
" Do not stands still even when eating or sleeping ... .. "
" Do not listen, does not stop even the call is always careless, even at school .... "
I could continue the endless list of statements that I hear of more and more often by mothers tired and dejected, but let's take a moment to reflect together.
Personally I love watching when I can, the actions taken by the children I meet: the park, in line at the supermarket, games room, restaurant and so on. It 's true often known attitudes of great movement and agitation, we now grossly "Hyperactivity". In parallel, often comes to my mind had work experience in the nursery of years ago. I fondly recall a beautiful blond child of 2 ½ years. He loved to speak with the body: big jumps, races, rololoni ... I close my eyes and I see it clearly run and jump even when asked a moment of containment (eg sit to sing along with friends, or at lunch time, or when reading a fairy tale). Difficult to listen to our demands even when they became insistent expressed his disapproval starting to annoy friends with pushes, kicks, bites, and embraces a bit 'too affectionate. " Even during free play happened to pass by a fun physical contact with a real expression of aggression. Clearly it was often taken up and each time picked up in his eyes infinite sweetness is not expressed. As educators we were obliged to inform the family and during the day against a team with the pedagogy we face on educational strategies to deal with. But we all noticed that most of these attitudes came to life at a time when the baby was not stimulated or better to say when the matter so he was bored. On this whole concept was seen in a different light. In fact, the child was a very bright child, with higher capacity and autonomy of peers. We started propose activities or games that require higher capacity and noted with pleasure that he immersed himself fully in these activities managing to keep alive the attention for very long time and that period had remained calm and relaxed even though the need and desire to move. This experience has brought me much to think because it happens to us adults to be in a situation of "annoying" where we put in place practices that do not fit (talk to your neighbor, eat out of boredom, etc.)..
Before you label our children as nervous, aggressive or hyperactive feel to see if they are not just bored and propose their activities and stimulating experiences, and perhaps it will remain surprises!
HELP FROM NATURE CAN 'BE ....
• Infusion of hawthorn and orange, or passion flower
• Essential Oil of Lavender for burns wood, Melissa and Mandarin sweet
• Magnesium powder
• Healthy, vital and fresh. Minimize chocolate, tea, sugar and cakes, sausages and pork.
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